Showing posts with label women's lib. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women's lib. Show all posts
All Talk and No Action Thursday, April 12, 2012

Broken neck, brain hemorrhage, cigarette burns, bites.

It'd have helped had Mumbai Mirror not published the image.

And we will continue to celebrate International Women's Day, participate in the Slut Walk and celebrate womanhood in general



All Talk and No Action Friday, March 12, 2010

Enough virtues about the Womens' Reservation Bill have been extolled.

A lot of Op-Ed ink has made its way to our homes.

A step ahead for womanhood, or so they claim.

Before more hogwash spreads and forms public opinion, I decided to add to the noise too. Not that I have anything that hasn't already been pointed out.

Mainly, so that ladies do not get the satisfaction of calling me an MCP.

As a lady, and a feminist [if that makes you happy], I do not support this Reservation Bill.

Reservation, of any kind, should be fought with, at all costs. Years of reservation for OBCs/SCs/STs have not amounted to much progress for these marginalised sections of society. The little numbers that did benefit, always belonged to the upper crust of these classes. I am sure the same fate awaits this Bill.

Also, once the bill becomes actionable, it will be impossible to scrap/modify it, even after women have found their rightful and just places in society and politics. Do think about this - The talks regarding this Bill have been making rounds since 1996. It has taken 14 years just to get it to the Rajya Sabha. Thinking about changes to the bill, once passed, is unimaginable.

We need to understand that reservations of any kind, can never make any wrongs right.

Next, this bill goes against democratic principles of elections. I would want to vote for a candidate with proven records and not for any gender per se. Also, the bill requires reservation on a rotational basis. For e.g., in Mumbai, during the current elections, seats in Bandra and Borivali might be up for reservation while the next elections would require Dadar and Colaba to have women MPs. I think this will only dis-incentivize our MPs and lead to non accountability. There is little motivation for an MP in this lottery like setup.

Furthermore, parties like SP have already asked for a quota within this quota - reservation for Muslim women within this bill. Really, do we need more of such vote-bank politics?

Another fallout of the bill can be various dummy women politicians filling in for the men in their houses - many more Rabri Devis and other maa-betis will unleash their stupidity on the electorate.

As a suggestion, parties may want to have reserved seats for women from within rather than having compulsory reservations in legislature.

Finally, I want you to dwell on prenatal sex determination, dowry laws and other such acts. They may have given protection to a small percentage of women. However, they haven't been successful at freeing our society from such ills. Meaning, laws are insufficient. Society and its outlook towards women need to change if we wish to see any inclusive growth. Every household and every parent needs to provide the girl child with as much love and appreciation as it would provide a son with. This will also put a stop to idiotic laws getting passed.

IndiaUnbound raised an important point here. Bangladeshi politics has seen power sharing between Khaleda Zia and Sheikh Hasina for the past two decades now. So, is it any reflection of the true state of Bangladeshi women?

Similarly, A Vasundhara Raje could not contain female infanticide in Rajasthan, A Sheila Dixit cannot help Delhi from becoming the Rape Capital of India and a Mayawati hasn't been helpful in preventing honour killings in UP. More women in legislature will not lead to better socio-economic status of women, more girls in school, more women at workplace, etc.

I strongly recommend reading Jerry Rao, SwapanDasgupta, The Acorn, and Madhu Kishwar to know why this bill needs not to become a reality.


All Talk and No Action Tuesday, February 16, 2010

A kind friend shared this on FB.

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, June 30, 2009

I didn't believe much in it. Though somewhere, all along, I knew that there is no smoke without fire, yet, I thought...yaar yeh toh family man hai !

What an actor... always come across as a shy guy...and so on and on went my mind...

Now I am mad at him. Maybe a little more than mad.

Anyway, here is a very hard hitting post by Mrs. Anju Gandhi.

No beating around the bush. Plain Hard Questions.Thoughts all women have, but only a few ask.




All Talk and No Action Tuesday, September 2, 2008


An interesting lunch table conversation at workplace...

The talk started with Young Damsels falling for Older men and veered towards Sallu Bhai and his bad luck with the opposite sex. The ladies drooled over his charisma and charm. All had mean things to say about his most famous muse (Now the Bahu of the first family of Bollywood).

Ladkiyon..Bhoolo mat ki usne is bandi ki bhar bhar ke pitaai ki thi…remember the famous fracture ? the broken eye...??

Ehh..?? So…? She asked for it !!

I am telling you if my guy were to ditch me, sleep with someone else…I won't think twice about non-violence and the crap !! I would beat the s**t outta him !

Haan re…am sure the lady must have been cheating on him…warna koi kyun apni girl friend ki itni pitaai karega..? She was a b***h and deserved it.

Yaar, sirf ladki ki galti thi kya? And agar thi bhi toh aisa bartaav? Beat her, break into her house, break furniture..? Asli mard aise neech kaam nahi karta...

Kuch nahi re…the guy is a Psycho !!

Don't forget the lady was a gold digger herself ! She has had a sling of boy friends ! She left all guys when they were down and out !

Sallu ne usse achha mazaa chakhaya !

Mai toh kehti hoon sabhi dhokebaaz ladkiyon ko maar daalna chahiye....

I pray he settles down with Kaif. They look soooooooo cute !!

Chup bey…baap beti lagte hain…


Man, this lady is taking him for a ride ! Salman ki achhai ka fayda utha rahi hai woh…

But she shouldn't forget that it's because of him that she has come so far !! It's her moral obligation to get married to him !

He still rules !! My my...maine pyaar kiya and HAHK still rock !

I will hate it if she too cheats on him ! She shouldn't be doing movies with Akshay if it makes Sallu unhappy !!

Oh yaa....its all about commitment you see...anything to make one's partner happy

Arre but it's her life and career ! What's the point of the relationship if she can't enjoy some freedom? Does one have to fore go one's rights in a relationship?

Oh yeaaah WHATEVER...!

And on and on and on it went....

What's revealing though is - all the participants in the above chat were females and most had no problems with violence and abuse in a relationship...

Interestingly, This was sent across by a male friend who heard about the conversation....

Phewww......God Bless us all !