Showing posts with label Romance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Romance. Show all posts
All Talk and No Action Friday, December 17, 2010

Since when did shyness become a mental disease?

I can understand the problem with harbouring negative self image.

But why are we hell bent on making an extrovert out of everyone?

Last I checked, shy girls at college still ruled the roost. Or was that in the 19th century (when I went to college)?

On a related note : This is funny. Behenjis you rock !

All Talk and No Action Sunday, November 22, 2009


This isn't a review of Jab We Met. It's way too late for that.

Last night, JWM, was again being featured on a movie channel.

And I, yet again, sat down to watch it !

I think this is the only movie after Andaz Apna Apna and Swades that I might have watched for God knows how many times.

My fixation with the movie is a source of irritation for people at home.

Faaltu ladki, zindagi mai koi kaam nahi bacha kya ki fir se yehi movie dekh rahi hai...? is often muttered by my brother.

So, I will try to dissect what it is about the movie that I can't get enough of it.

I remember watching JWM while in HK. My brother and cousin had watched it in India and thought it was a good time paas and could be enjoyed for its sweet moments.

Even though they recommended it, I wasn't very keen to watch it, primarily because it had two of the most irritating actors of that time ! Yeah, I thought Shahid & Kareena were an irritating couple.

Two factors, Imitiaz Ali and Shahid & Kareena's separation, led me to watch the movie.

Since then, every time I watch the movie, I come back with a new discovery, a nuance missed while watching it on previous occasions.

I love the movie because of :

  • The love story. It is not your girl meets boy routine. It's your girl "in love" meets the boy "lost in the battle of love". The most appealing part of the story is that both, Aditya and Geet, do not set out to impress and patau each other. That they see each other with their inherent differences of opinion and yet fall in love is what makes the movie click for me. Both have certain notions of their "perfect" match and yet come to like and respect each other is endearing. Neither character sets out to "change" the other. Accepting each other as they are is what makes JWM a gem. Obviously, that love can be found in the least expected of times and places also makes it a worthwhile watch
  • The friendship. That Aditya and Geet start out as friends makes the story more rooted
  • The dialogues. The "no frills" and simple dialogues make it easy to connect with the characters. No flowery words, no "chaand taare tod laaunga", no zor zabardasti. In fact, nowhere in the movie does Aditya profess his love to Geet. The undercurrents of romance are what make JWM an exciting experience
  • The performances. I was surprised to watch Kareena and Shahid come up with such a spectacular act, despite undergoing their break up pangs while the movie was being shot !
  • Aditya. Shahid Kapoor. No doubt that Kareena brought a new life and meaning to the Sardarni's role. The naive and talkative girl from Bhatinda was an instant hit. Yet, Geet is incomplete without Aditya. I was floored by Shahid, in what I can safely call his best performance till date. He has never looked so handsome, smart, sharp, melancholic, cynical, innocent, brave, wise and playful ! I felt bad when Kareena walked away with all accolades for the movie. Shahid deserved an equal treatment
  • The "Kutte, Kameene, Keede ki maut marega, Teri Maa Ki...!" scene which remains my favourite till date
  • The Chota Sardar who runs to Dadaji every time Geet does anything worth some masala. Such a Chuglikhor bachha !
  • The Dada ji who is always ready with "I told you so"... "Hamari umar mai..." dialogues. Just how much fun can it be to have such a Dada Ji around !
  • The jerk boyfriend, Anshuman. Remember the scene... "Yeh Launde mujhe Ganne ke Khet dikhana chahte hain...Kyun dekhun mai ganne ke khet, kya hai ganne ke khet main? Nahi dekhne mujhe yeh Ganne ke khet !!" Just how could any girl fall for such an idiot? :D
  • The "aa aa aa aa" in the song Tum Se Hi
  • The lyrics of Tum Se Hi
  • The snow of Shimla/Manali combined in Yeh Ishq Hai
  • The authentic use of a Washing Machine in the song Mauja Hi Mauja. Yes, if you observe closely, the Lassi being served to guests is being churned in a washing machine ! This is what is actually done in rural India and Punjab, specifically
  • Hotel Decent
  • A clean romantic comedy which one can watch anytime one wishes to
I could go on and on.

The point is, JWM might not be the first of it's kind in the romantic genre.

It is definitely the first of it's kind in being a nice, frothy, authentically made and an understated romantic comedy.

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, June 9, 2009

I have the habit of putting my fave songs as my caller tunes...

Ab yeh zaroori nahi ki mere callers ko bhi wahi gaane pasand aayen...

Infact many friends keep asking ki "Tu toh khud ko call karti nahi....toh fir apni pasand ke gaane kyun??"

Unhe kya pata ki mai kabhi kabhar khud ko call karke apni caller tune sun leti hoon ;-)

So today, Namrata ne kaha....

"Madam, kuch toh baat hai...yehi gaana tu pichle 2 saalo mai na jaane kitni baar laga chuki hai...Koi romantic connection hai kya??"

Kyun bhai, gaana pasand aane ke liye pyar ka hona zaroori hai kya?

BTW - I absolutely love this song !! Not very sugary lyrics or sho shaa... Just simple, easy on the ear words and such fabulous music...

Also, "Hey Shona" captures the sentiment so damn well...When I think of similar words in Sindhi, I can't help but roar with laughter :-)

Another reason I love this song is because of Rani. I have a penchant for Lonng Ear-Rings and I think Rani looks very stylish in them...

I remember, after watching the movie, I added even more Rani Like ear-rings to my already long collection....

Over-all too, the song is very "pretty" looking and has a frothy feel.

Sirf ek baat chamakti nahi - woh yeh, ki Rani itne bade Heels mai bhaag vaag kaise leti hai...Mai Toh kabhi na kar paaun :-)

Anyway, here I dedicate this song to all of you !