Showing posts with label random thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label random thoughts. Show all posts
All Talk and No Action Wednesday, April 11, 2012

I have been taken in by this wonderful initiative and have written to four people already.

I urge you to go through the letters. Some are cheerful, a few are uplifting, but the majority  are heartbreaking.

Which brings me to my closely held belief of saying it while you still have the time! 

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I've been away for so long that the whole business of blogging seems alien to me.

Every time I wish to share something, it invariably ends up being better expressed by someone else.

Plus, I always wonder what more can I ever add to the humongous pool of blogosphere. Everything worth saying, has been shouted from the rooftops; every news dissected, every emotion discussed threadbare, every worthy cause upheld and all possible outrage had.

Friends and readers have reached out at different times. I am grateful for the attention and, regret the woeful state this blog has come to.

Though some important events did claim majority of my time in the last few months, I won't offer them as valid reasons to not have blogged.

The only reason I didn't blog is -  I didn't have anything intelligent to say.

This feeling may have lingered had a friend not written a seemingly uninteresting mail a few days back. All he shared were thoughts that crossed his mind while he traveled to and fro office everyday.

What struck me then was how silly I had been all this while.

The very reason I started blogging was to give voice to the thousands of random thoughts that crossed my mind every day. The point was never to make readers think. The point was never to agonise over the wrongs in the world. It definitely was not to be a torchbearer of any sort. The only aim was to enjoy myself. And maybe, learn in the process.

My favourite bloggers have always been the ones who have created magic out of mundane subjects. They have connected with me, entertained me and if time permitted, made me think.

This is not to say that I won't link to important issues on this blog or discuss worldly and otherworldly matters.

It only means I will be more real to myself.

It also means I am already feeling better and less silly than from when I started penning this post.

And before you sign off, please try to answer this completely unrelated, but profound insight -


“Of all men’s miseries the bitterest is this: to know so much and to have control over nothing.” ― Herodotus, The Histories


Is this how knowledgeable and worldly wise Indians feel?

All Talk and No Action Sunday, December 18, 2011

A remarkable talk by Mark Pagel.

A tiny number of ideas can go a long way, as we've seen. And the Internet makes that more and more likely. What's happening is that we might, in fact, be at a time in our history where we're being domesticated by these great big societal things, such as Facebook and the Internet. We're being domesticated by them, because fewer and fewer and fewer of us have to be innovators to get by. And so, in the cold calculus of evolution by natural selection, at no greater time in history than ever before, copiers are probably doing better than innovators. Because innovation is extraordinarily hard. My worry is that we could be moving in that direction, towards becoming more and more sort of docile copiers.

If you're scrambling for time, I recommend reading the transcript. Pagel posits a thought provoking argument, the evidence of which you 'll find within your own environment.

A related article appeared in The New York Times, earlier this year.

Very few people discuss ideas, fewer still, come up with newer ones. The what if quotient of our generation has suddenly plunged. 

Television, print media, movies and books don't seem to be helping either.

I don't know if it's to do with information overload, shorter attention span, lack of incentive,  lack of desire to engage in meaningful dialogue or a killer combination of all of these.

But it sure is unnerving to be moving towards zombieland.

All Talk and No Action Monday, October 3, 2011

This article greeted me as my train lugged into Mumbai today afternoon.

I couldn't agree more. 

Every time I go on an extended leave, for whatever reason, I end up clocking 12+ hours at work. Though I love my work, it is not a good reason for such an unhealthy practice.

When I look around, I find a lot of friends to be in worse situations. 

Most friends have the customary 22 days' worth annual leaves. Yet, applying for leaves is looked at with disdain. In fact, an architect friend who works with a well known firm in Mumbai has been refused leaves and been asked to do all sight-seeing on weekends. Her Marwari boss doesn't appreciate any hints of wanderlust and believes work must take precedence over everything else.

Now, this may seem a one off case, but Indians, in general, can't take a chill pill. Even if we let our hair down, it has to be only on weekends.

Movie? Weekend. Friends get-together? Weekend. Party? Weekend. Hobby? Weekend.

We come alive only on weekends.

During my stint in Hong Kong, every time the clock struck 6.00 pm, there used to be a minor quake in the lobby. Chinese, Aussies, Kiwis, Americans, English, Malaysians, Indonesians, Filipinos - everyone wanting to get out and get some fun! 

But not Indians. 

Nope.

The anthem Indians lived by : In the Citi, all over Hong Kong, we are the Bhaai, we are the Bhaai.

Bleddy phools.

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, September 13, 2011

You already know what I feel about parents. All parents.

I will now go a step further and add : Most parents sacrifice and put up with a lot stuff, for their kids. I have come to believe, a lot of this sacrifice is way, way beyond their children will ever come to comprehend, leave alone appreciate.

I am not saying parents aren't selfish. But more often than not, the scale of : sacrifice, putting up with crap, heartburn, worry, giving up cherished dreams, tilts their way.

I have come to think of this excessive sacrifice as unnecessary.

I don't know when I started thinking this way. But it's been gradual and only increasing with time.


All Talk and No Action Wednesday, August 31, 2011

My job requires me to read and read a lot.

But, I make it a point to begin my day with him, them and them. If I am taking a break, I flock to their sites. If I am stuck and need inspiration, they are the ones I turn to.

Just thought a little Thank You post was in order, given how much value they add to my day.

On a related note, some of my favorite bloggers either only rant these days or are repetitive, few even talk down to me (as a reader) or have given up blogging altogether.

Seriously people, do you even remember why you started writing and we started reading you?

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“You see, really and truly, apart from the things anyone can pick up (the dressing and the proper way of speaking, and so on), the difference between a lady and a flower girl is not how she behaves but how she is treated. I shall always be a flower girl to Professor Higgins because he always treats me as a flower girl and always will; but I know I can be a lady to you because you always treat me as a lady and always will.”

It truly boils down only to this.

All Talk and No Action Wednesday, July 20, 2011

...a punctured, collapsed lung that was leaking blood, a bruised heart, 14 or 15 broken ribs, a broken breastbone and ruptured spleen.
Her pelvis was fractured, as were both of her legs, and her right ankle had split off altogether. Her right shinbone had penetrated 12 inches into the earth. Most worrisome, Deborah was in a coma, with diffuse injuries to her brain and signs of contusion to her brain stem. Some of these injuries alone were life-threatening; taken together, they presented a grim prognosis.
A gripping tale of survival, determination, and, transient love. And of course, Karma or Luck (depending on whichever side of the fence you are on).

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The human body never ceases to amaze me.  Its capacity to recuperate and rebuild itself is remarkable.
Though, I have known this  for years now, my Vipassana experience drove home this point even more lucidly.

The other day, a friend shared someone's account of Vipassana. A must read.

All Talk and No Action Monday, July 11, 2011

This is a very engaging video of the Norwegian Royal Guard performance (apparently on ice).


Apart from the famous "The Good, the Bad & the Ugly" theme, around 6:28 you should be able to spot the tune of a melodious bollywood song.

Ofcourse, we are the copycat here, as explained here.

Interesting find this has been.

Link via Abhishek S.

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, June 7, 2011

The below is a 9 minute video on Esref Armagan – a Turkish man without sight. 

The video is remarkable as it shows Esraf drawing and painting with much finesse. We are also reminded again that we really know very little about the human brain.


I would be much interested in understanding how Esraf is able to determine the colors of landscapes he paints. Just how does he ever understand that the sky is supposed to be blue and a tree is supposed to be green?

I once taught a visually challenged girl and found it extremely difficult to explain the concept of colors. During one of my sessions with her, I was meant to explain stuff like guessing the time of the day by looking at the color of the sun and its placement in the sky. I started with using dense terms like deep red and burning orange and sunny yellow till she happened to mention that she had never ever seen and probably will never see what these shades look like. 

Just how does one explain how cool the sun looks with a tinge of red in the morning sky, to someone who has never had the luxury of vision? 

All Talk and No Action Friday, June 3, 2011

As a part of a project at work, I have been looking at the importance of visual merchandising in retail. 

Delving into how visuals/design influence buying decisions at the market place has been quite a revelation. 

Ofcourse, there are statistics like 60% of the buying decisions in a store depend on the look, feel, music, lighting and flooring. But, I would rather interest you with a more appealing demo. 

Consider the below video. 


I love the way the designer has infused life in an otherwise boring product (a scarf).

Though not much of a shopper or a brand conscious person, I enjoy strolling through apparel stores. It is much fun to decipher their visual merchandising strategies and the stories their brands narrate.

All Talk and No Action Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Here is a curious problem. We may safely assume that you had two parents; each of your parents had two parents, so that you had four grandparents. Arguing along similar lines you must have had eight great grandparents and so on. Assuming an average of three generations per century the number of your ancestors since the Christian Era began must have been nearly 1 trillion –
1,000,000,000,000,000,000 or 1018
This is vastly more people than have ever lived on the Earth. What can we do about it?
 Source: Futility Closet

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, May 3, 2011




Can't disagree with him, can we?

As told my Mark Twain and reminded by Vivek - "Against the assault of laughter, nothing can stand"

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A cute, heart warming tale.

Link via Madhu Athreya.

Duh

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...As a good-faith gesture to make up for the bin Laden debacle, arresting his long-time deputy and al Qaeda's likely new leader, Ayman al-Zawahiri, and the Taliban's Mullah Omar would also be more than welcome.

...stop resisting a key administrative measure it beat back three years ago—to bring the ISI under civilian rather than military control. Pakistan's civilian rulers may be incompetents, but they lack the ISI's signature traits of over-ambitiousness and willful disregard for civilian lives.

Really? "Good faith gesture" from the Pakistani military??

More of such incredulous suggestions here.

I hold Sadanand Dhume in high regard otherwise.

All Talk and No Action Saturday, April 30, 2011

but friendly neighbourhood termites, who are feeding on your money.

10 m.i.l.l.i.o.n rupees only.

All Talk and No Action Monday, March 28, 2011

"Pakka? No other reason? Lock kar diya jaaye?? Come on, It can't be that easy!"

"Haan baba... it is the heat and the soot."

"Not the men?"

"Hell, No! The men here are becharas."

Alright then.

Puneri Ladkiyon ki kahaani - unhi ki zubaani.

The almost terrorist like facial cover up is only and only to save their nirmal, mulayam twacha from dust and heat - so said my colleagues from Pune.

So also seems to be the reason for Amdavadi women. 

Finally, I can lay this personal query of six years to rest.  

Though, I would have loved an answer like this : 
I think they believe that the more a girl is covered, the world tries to get more inquisitive to know them; however there's no sense to this logic.

All Talk and No Action Monday, February 21, 2011

So says this study by a few Harvard professors.

While I don't have anything intelligent to add, I do wonder why creative people could be more dishonest than the rest...

For the sake of this argument, let's ignore extremes like Madoff.

The only reason my mind comes up with : Our society is generally closed to "out of the box"/deviant ideas.

So, for creative people to get ahead and make semblance of a structured world, lying/cheating/being dishonest is the only way to live life on their own terms and get away with/be appreciated for their ideas?!

Or is it that people (creative or oherwise) are genetically coded to cheat/be dishonest and the creative lot just  has an upper hand due to its innate ingenuity?

Link via Prasad.

All Talk and No Action Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Given how much I depend on pen and paper and how beautiful my handwriting is, very soon, you may have to pay, to visit me.

What? You think Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj Sastu Sangrahalaya entry is for free?

All Talk and No Action Friday, December 31, 2010

It would be an understatement if I said 2010 was like any other year. I had made a list of things to be taken care of (most of which have been attended to). The year tested my patience and belief in myself. All things that could have gone wrong, did go wrong. 

To top it all, the last day of 2010 presented a perfect culmination to the year that was.

With a pizza party gone wrong (we were sent non vegetarian pizzas and had to cancel the entire order) and no cable television (our area network being down), all plans of watching Bigg Boss 4 and new year programmes evaporated.

So, while my phone kept buzzing with new year wishes and blessings, all I could think of was a warm bite of a spicy pizza + a cool sip of Coke, accompanied by a bittersweet Dutch Truffle pastry.

However, like you, even I receive silly SMS forwards like :

When life throws lemon at you, make a lemonade out of it.

So, my family did what it is best at - we played the 4 player variant of 3-2-5 (teen do paanch), where, Dad and I beat Mom and Mukund at most rounds.

Served them well for cheating.

Chotu couldn't understand what the excitement was about and kept prancing around.

I don't think I would have liked the year to have ended any other way.

Wish you a very Happy 2011.