All Talk and No Action Friday, December 31, 2010

It would be an understatement if I said 2010 was like any other year. I had made a list of things to be taken care of (most of which have been attended to). The year tested my patience and belief in myself. All things that could have gone wrong, did go wrong. 

To top it all, the last day of 2010 presented a perfect culmination to the year that was.

With a pizza party gone wrong (we were sent non vegetarian pizzas and had to cancel the entire order) and no cable television (our area network being down), all plans of watching Bigg Boss 4 and new year programmes evaporated.

So, while my phone kept buzzing with new year wishes and blessings, all I could think of was a warm bite of a spicy pizza + a cool sip of Coke, accompanied by a bittersweet Dutch Truffle pastry.

However, like you, even I receive silly SMS forwards like :

When life throws lemon at you, make a lemonade out of it.

So, my family did what it is best at - we played the 4 player variant of 3-2-5 (teen do paanch), where, Dad and I beat Mom and Mukund at most rounds.

Served them well for cheating.

Chotu couldn't understand what the excitement was about and kept prancing around.

I don't think I would have liked the year to have ended any other way.

Wish you a very Happy 2011.

All Talk and No Action Thursday, December 30, 2010

My previous post spoke about lack of coaching at a famous educational institution.

I couldn't help following it up with a movie on coaching.

A few days back, while working on an official project, I was made to watch The Legend of Bagger Vance (Yes, I am paid to watch movies).


Image Courtesy : Link God

Though a little known movie, it is highly acclaimed in the learning and development community.

Set in the depression era of 1930s, the movie traces the coming of age of a golfing champion. Matt Damon as Junuh, is Savannah's most loved sports star and is tipped to become the best thing that happened to golf. That is, the world war breaks out.

Once back from the war, Junuh leads a hugely traumatised and listless life. He wishes for no human interaction and is set to live in oblivion, until, a local golf tournament is announced.

Suddenly, a mysterious caddy, Bagger Vance, materialises from nowhere and hereafter, the movie takes an interesting turn.

Unlike other sports movies, the coaching and advise dispensed here, are subtle and sophisticated. So, if you expect a hot blooded fight between foul mouthed sportsmen, you will be disappointed. Infact, the movie plays at a leisurely pace and does not have the aura of the adventure genre.

Yet, it is every bit a sports movie. The writing is thoughtful and provokes debate in the minds of the audience. No emotion is overdone, cliches are avoided and every performance is finely nuanced. Scenes between Bagger and Junuh are so well scripted, they will make you yearn for such a life coach.

I also found the movie to be beautifully shot. It has an ethereal quality which supports the tone and the philosophical bent of the theme. That apart, I have always had a soft spot for winter wear and this movie is spot on when it comes to the attire and feel of the era. One look at the costumes and you will know exactly how each character feels.

Matt Damon and Will Smith, both, do more than adequate justice to their roles.

I recommend The Legend of Bagger Vance, for, it is quality cinema and sets the ball rolling for self introspection.

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, December 28, 2010

A little more than a month back, a colleague and I interviewed an interesting pool of students for internship at Pankhudi.

The applicants came from one of the best educational institutions in the country, and overall, the interviews went off well, but for one factor.

After sifting through 33 applications, SOPs and resumes, the only facet that screamed out of all resumes was their complete lack of originality.

Every resume followed the same pattern, mentioned the same projects, highlighted the same achievements, showcased the same talents and bragged about almost similar percentiles.

If you struck off the names, you would think the same person had applied 33 times.

The entire process made me think of the institution as a manufacturing plant.

The colleague who was a student of the same institution, offered a few reasons for this state of negligence.

Lack of in-house mentors and the fear of missing out on big companies that visited campus, made everyone ape the other blindly.

While mentors were available for bettering one's academic performance, the students had no go-to person for guidance on resume building, interview preparation and overall personality enrichment.

This, of course, came as a surprise to me. Despite the lack of support infrastructure, the students here have always managed good placements.

However, that is the prize for attending one of the best colleges the country has. It can only take you so far.

This post is not about this particular institution. At my previous employer, I once handled a repository of applications from Ivy league colleges, again, for internships. Exactly same situation there.

None of the applicants had put in any effort to leave his personal mark on the resume.

Such incidents make me wonder : Does an ivy league education hamper one's risk taking initiatives? Does your pedigree come in your way of being different?

Ideally, your education must open doors for you to live as you wish and portray what you are.

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There is nothing wrong if you like following the herd.

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Snapshots from Hell and What they teach you at Harvard Business school are must read books for people wanting to pursue their masters at Ivy league colleges.

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Gossip :  While in Hong Kong, an Indian lady I had just been introduced to, mailed me her resume, by way of formal introduction.

Her mail read : "Hi, let's be friends. So, let me tell you who I am : Check out my resume. Now, which college have you been to??"

I was later told that this was a norm at the college she visited.

Show your resume and make a friend.

All Talk and No Action Friday, December 24, 2010

Being mailed this link seems destined.

Just yesterday I was discussing with a friend how much I disliked reading self help books, and today, another one mailed the above link.

The only self help book I have read is The Alchemist and it.swore.me.off.all.self.help.books

I firmly believe that each of us knows what is in our interest, what should be done to earn more, love more, be healthier, be happier, be more successful, be more content, be smarter, have more friends and be a rockstar!

So, after knowing it all, if you still haven't been able to fulfil your wish - the book will never do it for you.

Merry Christmas.

Link via Vikas.

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Update : I now remember, I also tried reading  The monk who sold his ferrari. In the end, better (my) sense prevailed.

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This makes for a funny read. Picturing the stupefied critic cracks me up. Having enjoyed the read, I still wouldn't condone what the restaurateur did. It was downright nasty.

 However, it would be nice to do this with some of our food critics. Specially, who write for tabloids and provide no value add, either to the restaurant or to the reader.

Of late, the quality of food reviews that have appeared in Mid-Day, Time Out, Mumbai Mirror and Bombay Times make more damage than provide an honest feedback.

Ideally, you are supposed to offer valid reasons for why your restaurant visit fell flat. It goes without saying that you must have some idea about the cuisine you are about to critique. You can't claim to love Thai food and then whine about it using coconut.

Eating out and writing about restaurants you love is fine. Food Critiquing is something else altogether.

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Okay, now time for a restaurant review from yours truly. Ahem.

Just kidding.

I am not qualified to review The Indian Harvest at Acres Club. However, I can vouch for the terrific time you will have if you decide to visit the place.

They are champs at fusion food and I loved the fresh ideas they brought to the table.

I tried the restaurant after Rushina recommended it here.

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If you are into Food photography, do read Andrew Scrivani. Helpful tips.

All Talk and No Action Wednesday, December 22, 2010

MasterChef India is in it's last leg and I am very eager for this weekend's finale.

I am happy for having been able to predict two of the three finalists - Jayavardhan and Pankaj. Radhicka is quite a welcome surprise.

Having seen this far, I will root for Jayavardhan. Somehow, for no particular reason, he makes me feel emotional. That apart, he is quite a sight in the kitchen and one hell of a cook.

I admire the contestants for the finesse they bring to their food. Yet, with all the method and perfection, they still love what they do.

Sometimes, our search for perfection squeezes out the charm we find in our hobbies.

The day your passion feels like a chore, is when you should give it up.

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Mumbai University Senate Elections will take place on Sunday, 26th December 2010.

Mumbai University is an important administrative body and the Senate committee takes important decisions related to education and examination. Most decisions related to re-examination, re-evaluation, pass percentage, scholarships, etc. are recommended by this committee and further enacted by the University.

Infact, people who wish to start their political journey, often begin with the Senate.

Another interesting fact about this election - it has preferential voting. Ergo, you have the option of voting for more than 1 candidate and making every vote count.

Also, just so you know, there is no seat sharing/tie up here.  Each political party fights it out alone. 

So, unlike me, if you had heard about the elections and registered yourself as a voter, do go out and do the needful. The only requisite is for you to be a Mumbai University graduate.

All Talk and No Action Friday, December 17, 2010

Since when did shyness become a mental disease?

I can understand the problem with harbouring negative self image.

But why are we hell bent on making an extrovert out of everyone?

Last I checked, shy girls at college still ruled the roost. Or was that in the 19th century (when I went to college)?

On a related note : This is funny. Behenjis you rock !

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I am delighted to have animal lovers and pet owners as colleagues.

Finally, I can go to real people as against online groups and websites for tips on pet care. Though, Charu still remains my favourite girl.

There is something very different in the mental make up of an animal lover. You just know it when you meet one.

Anyway, the point of this post is : many at my work place and elsewhere, seem to be unaware of the BMC's drive to license pets. People who fail to have it done may have to pay penalties and even have their pets detained.

So, rush before Kanoon ke lambe haath close in on your furry friend.

I leave you with the below weekend goody :

Image Courtesy : Bagpakker's Blog

Choooo Chweet :-)


All Talk and No Action Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Will we ever see more of such brilliant coverage in English media?
 
I know. Stupid question.

Btw, did I tell you that one of my many dreams has always been to become political journalist?

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On Gujarat : I absolutely love the infrastructure in the state. And we are not talking only about cities.

Small towns have been given equal importance and there is much to envy (especially for a Bombayite).

Btw, did I ever tell you that another of my many dreams has always been to work for the Urban Planning Commission?

All Talk and No Action Sunday, December 12, 2010

There has been much that I have wanted to write about and share.

However, work and certain personal commitments have kept me very busy in the last few weeks.

So, most of my thoughts lie in my book - waiting to be typed and put up here.

I don't see any reprieve till the end of this month... hence, blogging will move at a slow pace. As and when I get a chance (and a life) I will post and/or ask friends to post.

Until then, jaa jee le apni zindagi.

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I have watched exactly two movies of Bill Murray - Groundhog Day and now, Lost in Translation.

Can't tell you how very endearing and amusing I find the man.



Image Courtesy : Witneyman

Lost in Translation is one of the best romantic movies you will ever watch. (Yes, I can't help gushing. So, for once, overlook the adjectives!)

Funny and poignant, I haven't been able to get it out of my head since yesterday. Especially, the climax.

The movie is layered and very well scripted. Everything else you want to know, please read it on others' blogs.

I am just glad, it sets right what Before Sunrise did wrong.

You will have to watch both the movies to know/guess what I am referring to.

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There has been much ado about the Niira Radia tapes and the politico-corporate-journalist nexus. Amidst daily breaking news, one point of view that caught my attention has been freedom of an individual and his rights to privacy.

While I am all for an individual's privacy, I don't quite get the point of using this argument for the Radia tapes. The tapes are neither voyeuristic in nature nor do they spill out any personal chats and/or corporate secrets of the companies involved.

What they do bring to the fore is how our journalists blinked, and became brokers between the ruling political party and private enterprises.

Barkha Dutt and Vir Sanghvi, like us, can be favourably disposed towards certain individuals and/or political parties. But if the fourth estate became an agent for the powerful, then there is almost nobody one can trust. (Here, I feel vindicated - I have always opined that the English print and television media in India is extremely biased. However, even I am surprised at the complete lack of scruples in this scandal.)

Now, if you are still keen to become a torch bearer for privacy rights, please be my guest. However, to save you some time and heart burn, I suggest you start from here

According to Kushan Mitra
And just a small bit of information to everybody, Government security agencies tap each and every phone call and text message you make in India. Thats right, each and every call. So next time you talk to your pimp/drug dealer/gun runner please know that Big Brother (Sister?) is listening to your every word. OK, so only if you use certain key words does the system get alerted, but everyday in those bunch of buildings behind Jawaharlal Nehru Stadium every call is recorded and stored for over a month. Detective Agency my ass!
 And, if you still feel zealous about the cause, I will also ask you to bear in mind that in India :
No 'secret' government document has been declassified since 1947. Well, that's not technically true. The Ministry of External Affairs did declassify more than 120 files dating from the 1950s and 1960s, but these are stored in the foreign office's records management section - not in the National Archives of India - and out of bounds for the aam janta, journalists included.
So whether it's the Henderson-Brooks Committee report on the performance of the Indian Army in the 1962 India-China war, or the LP Singh Committee report on the misuse of intelligence agencies and the CBI by Indira Gandhi in 1975-1977 during the Emergency, it's a strict no-go area, all in the name of that jelly bean called 'national security'.
And here's the clincher: the rules that deal with India's policy for declassification itself are classified.
I quite agree with Indrajit Hazra when he says
Let many more taps and leaks and creaks and groans lead to official and unofficial secrets tumbling out of the dingy attic. Because they're certainly not going to come out on their own.
What our journalists did was certainly not illegal.

But how about unethical?

I suggest you also read Shoma Chaudhary's take on the Tata's moving the Supreme Court on this subject.

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A few days back I watched The Insider and couldn't help drawing parallels with the Indian media.

A powerful movie with compelling performances - The Insider is a real life account of a whistle blower and how he is (almost) short-changed by Corporate America and Media Moghuls.

While Jeffrey Wigand deserves every bit of applause for his heroism, I couldn't help feeling awe for Lowell Bergman. The walkout in the climax has been playing on my mind ever since I watched the movie.

I jogged my memory through all my years of learning and searched for Indian journalists who had everything going for them, and yet had walked out on their venal employers.

Only for a tiny principle.

If you know of such people, please write back.

All Talk and No Action Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Guardian and the Complete Review are must visit places for all book lovers.

Often, I came across Haruki Murakami on many an author's must read list. This is how the Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman came to adorn my book shelf.


Image Courtesy : Jing Reed's blog

The book, a collection of short stories, all of which are set in Japan, is a treat for lovers of surrealism.

Most of Murakami's heroes are every day Joes who experience uncommon situations. Each plot is as implausible as it gets and every character has queer mannerisms. However, common themes of loss, loneliness, deceit and fear are woven beautifully into all stories.


So good is Murakami with his art that by the end of each chapter you will have met with fear and loneliness, in person.


What also makes the book an absolute page turner, is Murakami's lucid story telling. Even though most stories deal with dark themes and depressing milieu, there is always a tinge of thrill to the climax. Also, with time, you will realise that Murakami gives much space to his characters. There is no hurry to unveil their circumstances or idiosyncrasies. As a reader, you will have to be patient and let the stories unfold at their own pace.

Having been so kind to the book, I must add that reading Murakami can be difficult for his first time readers. Unless, they are open to lack of closure.


If you can handle unpredictability, Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman will definitely win your approval.

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It's a little late in the day to be sharing this

However, Mahima writes beautifully and I couldn't agree more on the subject.

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A lot has been said about Facebook and how it may have revolutionised how we view ourselves and the world. 

My opinion : Whatever.

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Quite a hilarious read this one! 

It's for tidbits like this, that history has been a favourite.

Link via Prasad

All Talk and No Action Monday, November 29, 2010

This was a delightful read.

I know that AIR has in-house librarians, but how valued they are, is anybody's guess. I mean, do you know of any college professors and/or historians who thank the AIR for making their subjects easier and interesting?

On the other hand, a lot of friends who are studying in the US or have been staying there for many years now, are always full of praise for the value NPR brings to the table. 

From what I know about private radio stations (through a colleague who is now an RJ), librarians are not a cherished  resource. Infact, some companies don't have any knowledge house. Most of the conversation is crowd sourced and repetitive.

No wonder then, about the quality of our programs and RJs.

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The online presence of most of our radio stations is akin to Page 3 coverage. About AIR, they deserve every bit of praise for killing creativity.

Do browse through NPR's website. Though they belong to a different zone, there is some very good conversation happening there.

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This is a deplorable situation.

While I don't have any suggestions to work out the problem, one only wishes the elderly are treated with more honour.

Link via Arvind.

All Talk and No Action Thursday, November 4, 2010

2010 has been quite eventful so far.

Before leaving for the Vipassana trip (earlier this year), I had promised myself that the day I got back to Mumbai - I would bring an end to my career in investment banking.

My job had presented me with many opportunities and accolades. However, I just didn't think it was anywhere close to a 'calling' for me.

Ofcourse, this crazy plan was well guarded from most people. Not everyone takes a deviation from routine as normal.

So, for the first time in 4 years after graduation, I had truckloads of time on hand.

I slept, read, watched movies and cooked.

I visited my school and went out with old friends.

I shortlisted nine sectors worth doing business in, made business plans and sought feedback from experts.

Yet, most of the time, seemingly engaged in interesting activities, my mind worked overtime.

I had NO idea where I was headed.

It was extremely difficult not to have any answers. For someone who prided herself on always knowing what she wanted from life and working towards achieving it, these months of uncertainty were quite daunting.

Thankfully, the year has progressed well and my experience of 'doing nothing' has been quite revealing and worthwhile.

Though some questions still irk me, most concerns have been ironed out.

Having spoken about the year, I now want to specify why I write this post.

I don't think I could have fared as well as I did, had it not been for my friends.

Ofcourse, my family was the most supportive. But then, they are blood relations and will have to wait for a vote of thanks.

Today, is just for friends.

People who have stood by me, supported me, corrected me, humored me, mentored me and just plain, heard me out.

People who showed me kindness and faith.

Most important, people who made me feel good about myself.


Once a friend told me that my future didn't bother him much. 'You are a Sindhi after all! Your innate resourcefulness will see you through!'

Ofcourse, that didn't solve my problems. Still, coming from a friend, it was the most comforting balm! (And, yeah, he earned brownie points for the Sindhi's ego massage ;-) )

The point I am trying to make is - Old friends are valuable and good for your health. Like wine, they get better with each passing year.

Often, people don't value their friendships. Different colleges, separate career pathways, boy/girlfriends, marriage, children are quoted as reasons of 'letting go'.

Agreed not all friendships are worth the hassle. Still, the few that are, must be treasured.

So, on this Diwali, while I thank God for my wonderful set of friends, I hope you reach out to people who have made your life worthwhile.

Here's wishing you and your loved ones a Sparkling Diwali and a fun filled new year!

All Talk and No Action Saturday, October 23, 2010


Image Courtesy : India spicy blog

Quite excited about the Indian version of the popular British series.

Though, I hope the editing gets better - we are here to enjoy a food fest and not listen to sob stories.

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Ever wondered why we don't have more female chefs?

NY Mag went out and asked, and came back with an obvious answer. Duh.